Holiday Sweets, Installment 2

Here is Linus decorating the ginger snaps. He really poured on the green sugar on some of them. Last night the three of us went door to door distributing bags of ginger snaps, angel food candy, and cranberry pecan toffee. Linus wasn't too keen on giving the bag to his little friend Charlotte. Then he caught on that we were giving presents and the rest of the stops went smoothly.

I'm pretty near my wits' end these last few days. Linus has been so ornery and screams at me about nearly everything. I'm hoping he is teething and that this isn't his new personality. I put him down for today's nap about 20 minutes early because I couldn't take it any more. Now I'm going to make some tea and relax while embroidering his Christmas stocking.

Holiday Sweets, Installment 1

Here is Linus helping me make the gingersnap dough. What you can't see are the 3 animals on the counter. He wanted them to help with the mixing. Speaking of mixing; doing a wide variety of activities with Linus broadens his vocabulary. From baking cookies he has learned: mix, mixing, sprinkles, sift, and flour. (He also knows the difference between a tea pot and a tea kettle.)

The other day Linus and I went to the basement to get the laundry from the dryer and for me to look for something in one of the many boxes. He was going around with his keys, locking and unlocking things. When I didn't hear any sounds from him I looked and saw that he was pulling the laundry from the dryer and putting it into the basket. When he was done he pulled all of the lint from the lint trap and put it on top of the dryer. Then he closed the door and came and said to me, "Fluffy." I was speechless.

Holiday Activities

Here is Linus helping me untangle the Christmas tree lights on Saturday when he was coming down with a virus. The other picture is of him checking out the tree a couple of days later. He has been good about looking at ornaments and not playing with them.

This morning he helped me make ginger snap dough. When he was dumping flour into the stand mixer the measuring cup fell in. I stopped the machine quickly and all was well. He really liked sampling the dough off of the beater when we were done. I explained that we were baking treats to give to our neighbors for presents and he liked that idea. It will be fun to go as a family from house to house distributing the treats.

One of Linus' animals was in the snow by the car all night. When it didn't make it into the house yesterday I thought it was in the car. When we ran an errand today I found it in the snow by the car. Poor lamb. Linus gave it a kiss.

Animals

Linus has started playing with his animals all of the time. When he refers to them it sounds like "animos." He insists on carrying the pig, lamb, cow, donkey, horse, and lizard around everywhere. Yesterday they had to eat yogurt when he did and he wouldn't eat his crackers at snack until I gave the animals some. He likes arranging them on the back of the couch and pushing them so they slide down onto the cushion. He also likes for them to sit with us when we read books.

Since he was still recovering yesterday I didn't want him to play outside in the cold. I got out some dried beans and a little muffin tin and we played with that for quite a while with the animals. He is feeling a lot better today, but seems to tire out easily.

Christmas Card Elf

Here is Linus coloring the Christmas cards. I've been making the cards in fits and starts as Linus plays with buttons in the craft room. Most of them will go out tomorrow.

Linus is feeling better today and his temp is normal. The doctor said it appeared Linus had a virus and a sore throat. I think I need to keep him away from much of society until we travel east for Christmas so that he arrives in Massachusetts in good condition for lots of fun. Even in the throes of a mean virus, Linus still said thank you when we handed him things. It was very touching. Holding his hot, feverish body against mine certainly pulled all of my heart strings.

Yesterday Linus gave me a kiss for the first time. He kissed me on the cheek twice. When I was on the phone with Jean telling her about it, Linus heard me and he showered Matthew with kisses. What a little sweetheart.

Sick Baby

Linus is sick again. Or maybe he didn't get over what he had at Thanksgiving and it worsened? Who knows?! He had a temp of 104 much of the weekend. He has spent the last two nights in our bed. He started to appear sick when we went to pick out our Christmas tree and to see Santa at our neighborhood yarn shop. I thought he was crying at the tree lot because he was scared of the chain saw. But he didn't eat the candy cane the tree seller gave him and when we got him to the yarn shop he felt warm. I was hoping to get a good picture of him with Santa to use for our Christmas cards, but he looks sad and sick in all three shots. See what I mean? Poor little guy. I'm hoping he naps for at least 30 minutes right now and I'm taking him in to see the doctor later.

Sweet

Here is Linus licking the beater when we made a cake together last week. He helped me sift the dry ingredients together. (When I shared this story with the neighbors they were astonished that I sift.) His fine motor skills are improving and less of the batter or dough gets thrown around when he mixes by hand.

Linus has been driving me a bit batty with some of the conversations we have repeatedly from morning until night. The main one goes like this:
Linus: "Yogurt?"
Me: "You can have yogurt for breakfast."

Later--
Linus: "Yogurt?"
Me: "You already had yogurt."
Linus: "All gone."

We have this part of the conversation throughout the rest of the day. If I give in and let him have a second 8-ounce yogurt, he gets very gassy and last night he wouldn't eat dinner. When we bring groceries home, Linus puts the yogurt away on a lower shelf in the refrigerator and I let him pick which one he wants each day. He knows that his yogurt has a cow on the container.

Pretend

In that last couple of weeks Linus has started pretending a lot. He pretends to pick hay and feeds it to me and tells me to be a horse. Today he was walking around with Matthew's electric razor and pretending to shave himself, me, and his stuffed animals. He even made shaving noises.

He has also started to get interested in his crayons for more than telling me to draw bees. He scribbles up a storm. He calls every color yellow. He also asks me to draw horses, cats, and babies. He now asks me for a pen and when I ask him what he is writing, he says, "Name."

Here he is wearing the reindeer antlers he has us take turns wearing.

Date Night

Matthew and I actually took the plunge and had Annalouiza watch Linus so we could attend Matthew's work party. It was fun to get dressed up and participate in the half hour salsa dancing lesson at the party. Linus cried a bit when we left and Annalouiza said it seemed as though he was waiting for us to come home. He survived and we had a great time.

As you can see, Linus liked my purse. (Creases, do you remember this cute shirt of Brandons?)

Cozy

Linus refers to quilts and blankets as cozies. As I rushed to finish Lyz'z 30th birthday quilt/cozy, Linus saw quite a bit of it. He plopped down on it to play with buttons while I embroidered the label for the back. He played under it when it was hanging over the ironing board. I kept reminding him that it was a present for Lyz so that he wouldn't get too attached to it. He seemed okay with that as he helped me wrap it up. He learned all about curling ribbon and he stuck stickers on the box.

Monkey

When Lucero came over on Tuesday to play while her mama enjoyed some crafting time, she brought over monkey hats. She didn't wear hers, but Linus loves his. He even insisted on wearing it when he went down for his nap later in the day. The two wanted to play in Linus' crib and next thing I knew, they were jumping up and down. With Linus wearing the monkey hat, I couldn't help but sing, "Two little monkeys jumping on the bed."

When they were snacking together, Linus said thank you every single time Lucero handed him a piece of cereal. Every single time. He also says thank you when he hands something to someone. When Lucero fell down and cried, Linus became distraught. I cuddled him and said we should give Lucero a hug. He gives hugs to his little friends by resting his head on their chest. It looks awkward because he has to bend down to accomplish it, but it is very sweet. He appears to be a sensitive kid.

Haircut

Linus' first professional haircut experience went great! I felt so relieved when he was done, as I had been stressing out about him making a scene. I should have known better, because Linus really is a mellow kid. I took him to LolliLocks, a locally- owned chain of kids salons. The place is little diva girl heaven. They sell tons of pretty hair things. They have a play area and fun chairs for the younger kids to sit in while getting their hair cut. Linus chose to sit on the dragon. The stylist apologized that she only had a pink cape for Linus to wear because the blue ones weren't dry yet. I said I had nothing against Linus wearing a pink cape. She worked efficiently, talked nicely to him, and gave him books to look at while she worked. She asked what I wanted and I said I wanted it trimmed up and for him to look like a sweet little boy, no buzz cut. Voila!

Keys

I don't remember posting about the set of keys I bought Linus at a neighborhood hardware store. He showed no interest whatsoever in his toy keys, but loved playing with mine. When I told the guys at the hardware store what I wanted keys for, they got very excited and involved in coming up with the best solution. One suggested giving us keys that they had cut wrong for other customers. They said I could have them for free. Then the one guy was worried that the edges were too sharp. I said I'd buy blanks. When I asked if they had colored bands to put on the keys to help with teaching Linus colors, they were so excited to pull out colored keys. Linus has a set of red, blue, yellow, green, and purple keys on a real key chain. Every now and then he plays a game of running around the house "locking" all of the doors. Fortunately, we live in an older house with skeleton key locks in each door. Here he is locking our bedroom door at night.

Notice how long his hair is? He will no longer let me trim it, so I'm taking him in on Thursday for his first professional haircut.

Child Development

Here are some random things about Linus at 19 3/4 months:
--He has started saying thank you without being prompted. At the library on Saturday an older boy was handing him plastic animals and Linus thanked him. I was so very proud of him. Reminds me yet again of Brandon's early courtesy development.
--He now tells us when he has pooed. He'll say, "Poo," and point to his diaper, or he'll say, "Diaper." I'll say, "Should I change you?" and he heads to his changing table. This is the first step toward his being potty trained. Every little boy I know hasn't mastered it until he was three, so I'm under no delusion that Linus will potty train any earlier. Sometimes he says poo and he hasn't. Maybe he felt the urge? Who knows? Today he said poo right before he very obviously pooed. Getting there kiddo, step by step.
--He has become aware of gender. He has correctly identified people as boys and girls. Lucero points out that boys have penises and girls have vaginas, but Linus hasn't started asking about that yet.

We had to mail Flat Stanley back to Wisconsin today. We'll miss him. Here is a picture of him posing with Matthew and Linus at a public art installation outside the library.

Thanksgiving Wrap Up

We had an enjoyable holiday at Martha and Bill's. That morning he kept saying, "Pahty," for party. The food and conversation were great. We put a little piece of turkey on Linus' plate, but he didn't even taste it. He didn't eat much other than butter off of his roll. It was past his nap time and he was getting a bit worn out. He rebounded in time for pumpkin pie later in the afternoon. He enjoyed running around the house, playing with Bill's stuffed eagle, and trying to feed the dog that was a guest at the gathering.

Friday night we went to our first holiday party for the season. One of the families from the Congress Park play group invited folks over for food, drink, and play. The plan was for the whole group of us to head downtown to see the lighting of the city county building, but when we got to the party the host said it was too cold to go. My first thought was that they were pretty wimpy. We'd come prepared with warm clothes, coats, boots, scarves, etc. So after the party we went down to see the lights on our own. Saturday we took Flat Stanley downtown to see some sights. This morning we went for dim sum and Linus kept trying to drink from his chopstick, like it were a straw. He liked the sweet little rolls we gave him.

The pictures are from Thanksgiving: Linus posing with Flat Stanley and the turkey and him reading a book with Thomas.

Verbosity

Linus has started using verbs. He uses them to tell me what to do: sit, stand, hug, run, eat. He also says, "Come on," in the cutest way. He says, "Swim, swim," as he makes his stuffed animals pretend swim. Yesterday he said, "Would like that."

After clearing up my clogged head with a decongestant, Linus and I worked together to put plastic over some windows this morning. Mostly he just climbed the ladder with me on it.

Flat Stanley

We received a Flat Stanley in the mail yesterday. We've been instructed to take it places and take pictures to document his visit here, then send it all back to an elementary classroom in Wisconsin. He must have come from Brandon's classroom. Linus took Flat Stanley in the stroller for our walk yesterday and let him go down the slide into the leaves at Lucero's house.

Linus was sick with a temperature of 104 over the weekend. He is feeling much better, but Matthew and I have scratchy throats. I keep plugging along, because I can't tell Linus that I don't feel well.

First Shot at Video

Here is my first attempt at attaching video taken in Photo Booth on my Mac.

Dishpan Hands

Linus had a blast playing at washing dishes. When I boosted him up onto the chair in front of the sink, he seemed confused; until I said, "Can you wash these dishes for me?" He dove right in and washed with gusto. When he dripped water on the chair, he'd let me know and I would dry it off. When water splashed into his eyes he would exclaim, "Eye. Eye," and I'd come over and dab at his face with a towel. His clothes got soaked, as did the floor under him, and he had the time of his life. He played at it for over an hour, leaving me time to sweep and mop the kitchen floor and start dinner. A rousing success!

Fun and Games

We joined Chase and her mom at the Museum of Nature and Science this morning. The place was a madhouse with field trip kids. Even the Discovery Zone was full with toddlers. Linus spent about 15 minutes playing with wood cylinders. They are designed for older kids to pick them up and try to pair them up based on weight. Linus had fun stacking them, dumping them out of their box, putting them back in, and dropping them into another activity. The volunteer behind the counter said that Linus has an amazing attention span for someone his age. I beamed with pride, of course. When we parted from Chase and Langley, Chase blew Linus a kiss and he blew one back. He has never done that before!

After his nap I'm going to introduce him to a new game to see if he likes it. I read that toddlers like to play at washing dishes. I'm going to put a chair up to the kitchen sink and fill it with plastic bowls and dish soap and let him play.

Here is Linus "playing" at the computer. I set the font size to be rather large and let him type. The Waldorf school people would disdain this game because they don't think kids should use computers at all until they are in high school or something like that. While I don't let Linus play computer games yet, I think typing is a good way for him to experience the alphabet.